After knowing the whole matter, you will also say- who does this in marriage?

Many people believe that the wedding day is the most lovely moment of life, which shows the love of only two people. But some people are so lost in their old memories that those memories start interfering in their new life. Something similar happened with Emily, a woman from America, who is 30 years old. Emily is now preparing for a second marriage, but one of her actions surprised the fiancé. In such a situation, Emily’s fiancé has shared his story on the Redit and has sought opinion from the people. The person has written in his post that he is going to marry his 30 -year -old fiancé Emily, from which he loves a lot. But one thing is being eaten inside him, which is associated with Emily’s first husband. In such a situation, he does not understand whether he is right or wrong.

In the post, the boy further wrote that Emily was married to a boy named Tyler five years ago. Both were very happy to marry. But Tyler died in a tragic car accident. Emily, with this great shock and slowly moved forward in life. Meanwhile, knowing everything, I fell in love with Emily. I knew that I am not his first love, but I don’t mind it. The boy further explained that he was always with Emily in his grief. When she used to go to her grave on Tyler’s birthday, she used to remain silent. Not only this, Emily has placed a box of toiler things in her house cupboard, which the boy never touched. Emily showed him some pictures of Tyler and told him how good a person he was. The boy always took care of his feelings and tried to create his new life. But one day, amidst the preparations for the wedding, Emily said something that disturbed the fiancé.

Emily told that she wants to wear the east husband Tyler’s ring in the throat chain on her wedding day. I do not happen here today without that accident. This is a special part of my life. The boy was surprised to hear his fiance Emily’s words. He did not say anything at that time, but later told his trouble. He told Emily that I want our marriage to be a celebration of our love. Wearing someone else’s ring, even if it is not now, it is difficult for me. After this, there was a tension between the two. Emily did not talk about this again, but did not even say that she will not wear the ring. In such a situation, the boy now feels that because of these things he has proved wrong, as if he wants to erase the old memories of Emily. But he does not even want to feel the presence of Tyler on the wedding day. In such a situation, the boy wrote his story on the Redit and sought opinion from the people.

More than 42 hundred people spoke on this post. Commenting on the post, a woman wrote that my husband also passed at the age of 29. I understand Emily’s feelings, but I think she is wrong. The wedding day should be only for both of you. Tyler can also be remembered later. Another advised, “Avoid the wedding for some time. Emily does not look fully ready yet.” Another woman said, “My husband passed 9 years ago. If I marry again, I cannot even think of remembering my old husband. It is something strange.” Another woman told that she wears her old husband’s ring in the right hand and the new husband’s ring in the left. At the same time, some people warned that if Emily remained like this, the fiancé will always be at number two.